Clare BowersNov 30, 20203 minDo friendships change when you become a mum? During my pregnancy and early years of motherhood, I felt like I was losing friendships. There’s a common belief that you find out who...
Clare BowersNov 12, 20203 minPicture Perfect, well almost!As expected, my body changed during my pregnancies. I didn’t put a lot of weight on, mainly due to the morning sickness, but I did gain a...
Clare BowersOct 13, 20202 minMini Meltdown for Me ...There would be times during my pregnancies, yes all three, where I could wake up after no sleep, or even a full night’s sleep, and be in...
Clare BowersSep 16, 20202 minSo much changed when I became a mum ...“I felt like I had to be a woman when I had my baby, but I still felt like a girl. I felt people didn’t take me seriously because of the...
Clare BowersSep 8, 20202 minThe Active MumAs you modify your thoughts, it’s important to do this for your body too, and be mindful that staying physically active does help. When...
Clare BowersAug 15, 20203 minThe Mindful Mum. Well sort of ...Mindfulness to me means living in the present moment and not allowing the past or the future to determine my choices. Being a mum of...
Clare BowersAug 14, 20203 minBeing in a relationship can feel so lonely ...There were reasons I didn’t feel like I could have Me Time in the past. One was shame. My idea was to appear as though I never needed...
Clare BowersAug 13, 20203 minDoes any of this time belong to me?When I’m asked about the differences between ‘Mummy Time’ and ‘Me Time’, the truth is that what these two very different times mean to...
Clare BowersAug 10, 20202 minAnxiety is Not the Same as Fear“With there being very little antenatal care in my community I began to feel frustrated that the care needed was coming either too late...
Clare BowersAug 8, 20203 minIt’s as though our purpose has become to compete with each other.“I found that when I became a mum at 16 years old the people around me would pity me and there weren’t many congratulations because in...
Clare BowersJul 31, 20203 minI lied so many times ... I lied so many times when I was a single parent. I even remember buying myself a dress ring to wear when attending groups just so I...
Clare BowersJul 28, 20202 minThe Single Mum Who Made It “I didn’t have the choice when I became single whilst pregnant. My partner at the time walked away and I couldn’t force him to stay so I...
Clare BowersJul 23, 20203 minSomething had to change ...I started to read different magazines, looking for some guidance. They were filled with gorgeous women who had managed to get back their...
Clare BowersJul 19, 20203 minMummy Guilt ... It's real. “I experienced a horrendous amount of bullying growing up, especially in school. I was made to believe I was the worst person in the...
Clare BowersJul 12, 20203 minIt’s not a race; if it was it wouldn’t work.Think of the cover, and then think about the barriers that are holding you back from being true to yourself and finding your identity. We...
Clare BowersJul 9, 20203 minGetting Trapped Under the Cover of Motherhood“I wasn’t aware in the first few years of becoming a mum, that everything I was feeling wasn’t healthy. I just thought this was...
Clare BowersJul 5, 20203 minI believe that my fear came from my own thoughts ...Recently I read that 1 in 5 women experience post-natal depression, which can be linked to pregnancy experiences. Support can be on the...
Clare BowersJul 2, 20203 minThe Fear of the Unknown“All my worries about everything I didn’t know kept building up when I was pregnant making me irrational and all over the place. I was...
Clare BowersJun 25, 20204 minThis is Me ... What already feels like so long ago, there was a young woman who lived her life to the full. Her only priorities were for herself and her...
Clare BowersJun 23, 20203 minA Mother’s Identity:Becoming a mother can be overwhelming. You’re blessed with a life other than your own to protect, nurture and flourish. Subconsciously...